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He's doing so because he wants something in return.

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Appearance isn't everything, though. He thinks that if he's nice, she should make an exception and give him a shot. He needs to be brought down a notch.

Yes, there are men out there who are genuinely good-hearted. But, if we go back to our original point, if you honestly respect women, you then have to respect that they're smart and know what they want out of a partner.

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These aren't moral flaws, but they can make you less appealing to a potential partner. The narcissistic male does not make a good partner, but even experienced females do not realize this. Yeah, that's probably not what actually happens. Despite believing myself to be a decent person, I spent adolescence struggling to find and keep a girlfriend.

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Sorry, but the sad fact is, maybe those men have more to offer than mere kindness. It's still massively condescending. He doesn't think this is fair. A gorgeous woman shouldn't have to, either. They aren't making as many romantic mistakes as you'd like to believe. Damn you, biology!

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The fact that you're nice does not change that. We don't choose the bodies we're born into. Believing that girls are just as capable of making rational decisions as guys is a basic requirement for respecting them. That can make a guy bitter. Those brains need. But it's an extremely flawed way of looking at relationships, and at its core, it's not Lady wants nsa Archie that nice.

He's got biological urges telling him he needs to be with the prettiest girl in school, but she'll likely opt for someone of similar attractiveness. Maybe they do prefer bad boys.

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The entire premise of the nice guy argument — that their behavior should be rewarded — relies on an incorrect equation. If she can bring him down to earth, it Noce be the ultimate accomplishment. You know the type: the guy who insists he's kind, thoughtful, patient, and exactly what any smart, self-respecting woman should want. And it seems like some of us have begun to accept it as the truth.

It should be its own reward. You're rejecting the possibility that they can make the right choice for themselves. This isn't to say that you're a bad person. Especially these five lessons. But that doesn't mean you don't have more work to do.

Just look at history. Seems like guyy these days don't appreciate that, though. Nice guys are boring No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself. Being a decent person isn't something you should do with the expectation of getting a relationship out of it.

A legitimately nice person is just nice. If you won the genetic lottery, you probably wouldn't settle.

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This can be a difficult thing nees admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true. Chelsea Victoria When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire. You're pursuing her because you like the way she looks, and you're probably ignoring less-attractive girls in the process.

Pop culture can have that effect. Bonninstudio It's a giant catch, isn't it? That way, you can assume that if you looked good, being nice would be the only other quality necessary to earn you the affections of your dream girl.

Oy vey. And they're cool with not getting rewarded for it.

They can, as it turns out, make up their own minds. Maybe they constantly ignore the man who'll always be there with flowers, while chasing the one who'll never treat them like a princess.

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This means even though we ladies claim to want serious relationships with good guys, we end up going for the guy who's no good for us. Ugy attitude is condescending. Except that life isn't fair. And maybe they realize… 3. You're allowed to be upset over the fact that you don't — I'm upset that I'm not Michael Fassbender — but that doesn't mean you're in the right if you want to insist that women should be more interested in a guy like you.

Life isn't fair.